New Jersey foster and adoption guidelines

In New Jersey, the term Foster Parent has been replaced with Resource Parent. This term more accurately reflects the Resource Parent’s supportive role to the children, the children’s family, and the professional team. The Resource Parent serves a critical role in supporting reunification efforts (the primary goal for most children entering out-of-home care).

Thank you for your interest in becoming a resource parent to children and youth in state care. NJ resource parents are essential members of the professional team working collaboratively towards meeting the needs of the child/youth. Successful resource parents possess an abundance of patience, empathy, and unwavering commitment to making a difference in a young person’s life.

New Jersey needs passionate, committed individuals/families like YOU who can offer loving guidance and support to children while their birth family mends.

* CP&P will not preclude a person from being a foster parent based solely on their culture, religion, race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression, affectional orientation, or marital/civil union or domestic partnership status.

Learn more about adoption and foster care on the New Jersey Department of Children and Families website.

State contact information

For New Jersey families interested in becoming a licensed foster/adoptive home, contact Embrella.

For licensed New Jersey families and families approved and licensed by an adoptive agency in USA, contact [email protected].

Foster and adoption licensing requirements

Becoming a foster or adoptive parent is easier than you think. You must be at least 18 years old and at least 10 years older than any of the children who will be placed with you, able to support yourself and in good physical and emotional health. You can:

Be married or single
Be childless or have children
Work outside the home or stay at home
Rent or own your house or apartment

During the home study process, training is also required to prepare families to become foster or adoptive parents. New Jersey uses the SAFE adoption home study format.

Costs to foster and adopt

If you adopt or foster through the division, the only cost incurred during a foster or adoptive home study is the cost of medical examinations for each family member.

If you would like to adopt through a licensed private adoption agency serving New Jersey, fees vary. Please ask each agency what their requirements and fees are, and if their home studies are licensed. Many people have completed adoption home studies, but are unable to adopt a child from New Jersey if their home has not been licensed. In situations such as this, it is often necessary to have a second home study completed by the division if they should become interested in adopting a child from New Jersey. Here is a list of approved licensed adoption agencies in New Jersey (186 KB PDF).

Subsidized adoption

If you are an adoptive parent, or if you are interested in becoming an adoptive parent for a special need child, the child you adopt may be eligible for financial assistance through the Adoption Subsidy Program.

Federal adoption tax credit

Beginning in tax year 2003, families adopting a child with special needs from foster care could claim the adoption tax credit without needing to incur or document expenses. Find more information on the North American Council on Adoptable Children website.

Agency contact and orientation information

For families interested in providing foster care or who are interested in the type of children available for selected home adoption through the division, the first step in the process would be to contact 800-99-ADOPT (1-800-992-3678). Embrella employees answer these calls, send information to the family, and route the inquiry to the appropriate division local offices resource family recruiter. The resource family recruiters arrange engagements with perspective adoptive and foster families as soon as possible. During the home study process, 27 hours of PRIDE training is also required to prepare families to become foster and adoptive parents. Here is a list of division offices.

Families who are interested in adoption only may be referred to licensed private adoption agencies if they are not interested in the children New Jersey typically places in selected home adoption placements.

Post-adoption support services

See a comprehensive list of post-adoption and guardianship support services and support groups available to families who live in New Jersey.

Information on New Jersey's children

In 2023, 419 adoptions were finalized statewide. As of July 2024, there are 64 unmatched legally free children and 2 unmatched non-legally free children.